What’s on your mind?

 

If we could sit down over coffee, would you answer this question honestly? Or would you show me your happy face? You know, the one we often bring out in public to make it look like everything is okay.

 

I’d truly love to know what you’re thinking. Because if you’re anything like me, your thoughts might be hard to control. Sometimes they run amuck with lies and misconceptions about ourselves. Instead of clinging to the truth of who we are in Christ, we replay the unkind thoughts and ugly, unpleasant musings.

 

You might reason, “They’re just thoughts—they don’t hurt anyone.” But I beg to differ.

 

The Dangers of Adopting a Negative Mindset

 

While it would be wonderful to have a warm, fuzzy identity in our own minds, the reasons to tame our thoughts far exceed the desire to feel good about ourselves. It may seem that our thoughts are harmless, but when we allow them to replay, we begin to believe them. And that comes with devastating and ever-increasing consequences. For instance,

 

  • A negative mindset causes us to become overly critical of others. We are suddenly hard to please and those around us feel as if they can do nothing right.
  • We begin to doubt our God-given gifts and talents.
  • This causes hesitation to serve our church, our community, or even of family. We draw back instead of stepping forward to get involved.
  • We succumb to the temptation to accept mediocrity instead of embracing the best God has for us. He offers more, but we convince ourselves that we’re comfortable with things as they are.
  • A mental fog can overtake us, dulling our peace and joy.
  • Discipline in our time with Jesus begins to wane, and soon we recognize that we don’t connect with Him the way we once did.
  • Our prayer life diminishes and we doubt its effectiveness.
  • We begin to overcommit and overwork, believing that it will help us “prove” ourselves.
  • We shrink back from making new friends or deepening our existing relationships.
  • It becomes hard to trust others.
  • We lose sight of the reality of the cross.

 

When we believe the lies that the enemy of our soul whispers into our hearts, it becomes second nature to estimate our personal value on what we do rather than who we are.

 

Taming Your Thoughts by Trusting God’s Truth

 

What if our struggles in marriage are due, in part, to the personal identity we hold of ourselves? Is it possible that our relationship issues, our lack of confidence in parenting, our battle with the bathroom scale, or that simmering anger that we seem to always carry with us, stem from our habit of listening to untrue thoughts about ourselves?

 

What if we could break free and step into the truth? Imagine what could transpire in our thoughts and then in our lives if we began to grasp the full richness of God’s glory and see ourselves as He sees us.

 

As daughters of the King, we have a Heavenly Father who loves us—just as we are—and is the Source of our true identity. Yet, rather than trusting in the truth of God’s Word, we yield to the temptation to find our value in the things we do, in what we produce, and in the opinions of others. It’s time to stop the madness and embrace all that the Lord has for us.

 

Today kicks off a new series of articles on the blog that will point us to the truth about who God says we are. I believe that all women need to hear that they are enough. They are worthy. They are loved.  It’s time that we stopped estimating our value based on our mistakes, our histories, the unkind words of others, or the lies of the enemy. Those things can’t define us. Only God can do that.

 

Will you join me for an exciting journey where together we’ll deepen our understanding of who we are in Christ? I look forward to meeting you right back here and unpacking the exciting and trustworthy truth of God’s Word!

Trusting in God’s Word,

 

 

 

 

 

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